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Subject: my dad's cat scan results
Date: 03/15/2007

My dad met with the gastroenterologist on tuesday and they confirmed his tumor is malignant and there are two localized lymph nodes involved.  As far as the scan could show there is no other organ involvement although they said there were some very small "shadows" on the liver.  He is having a PET scan tomorrow and meets with the oncologist at Roswell Park Cancer Center in Buffalo next wednesday.  I feel cautiously optomistic if there is no other organ involvement.  The awesome news is that my dad is trying to quit smoking.  He went straight from the GI doc to the store and picked up some Nickerette and some Boost Plus.  The GI ordered him to drink 5-6 daily in addition to any food he eats!!  He has lost 15 lbs the last couple months and he is a skinny man to begin with.  He is 5 foot 11 in and only 135 lbs.  I am very scared about that aspect of this disease, especially for him.  We have been blessed with high metabolisms but is not such a blessing right now!!

I have  a question for all the patient's out there.  Did you have a pessimistic outlook at first based on the info on the internet?  My dad seems to feel like there is no hope and although he is willing to try, he says he doesn't know how long he will be willing to try if the outlook is so bad.  I am hoping that this is just his initial reaction coupled with the stress of quitting smoking and cutting back on alcohol.  Any words of wisdom or incite would be helpful but please be honest.

My dad is very defensive about anything we say to him to encourage him or any advice we try to give.  We are now afraid to offer any words or thoughts regarding the cancer.  He says he feels like we all think he is unaware of the facts about the disease and that we are all trying to make decisions for him.  Frankly, we have not reached that point to where options have even been given yet.

Thanks,

Debby

Subject: RE: my dad's cat scan results
Date: 03/15/2007

Hi Debbie,

I wanted to tell you about my husband, who was diagnosed with EC on December 21st, 2006.  The prognosis was NOT GOOD.  He was already at stage IV, as it had metastasized to the liver and lung.  Both my husband and I read up on EC and realized how serious it is, but we also knew there WERE treatments out there, albeit supposedly no cure.

I just sent an update to all of my friends and family - hopefully this update will give you AND your dad some real hope and encouragement.  Oh, my husband is 64 years old, just in case your dad wanted to know his age.

The following is my update to friends and family

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Harley had his third infusion this past Friday (March 9th) and he also had a CT scan that afternoon.  The reason the doctors decided to do the CT scan is that they can barely feel the tumor anymore!
It was a loooooooong weekend because I knew we wouldn't get the results of the CT scan until Monday.  Harley's doctor, bless her heart, had given us her cell phone number, so Monday I called her.
She was apparently at her computer so she said she would look up the results.  When she found the results she said (in a very upbeat voice) "Oh My!  This is VERY impressive".
She then told me that the mass on Harley's liver had been reduced by 50%!!!!!!!!  Even she couldn't believe it until she double checked it, then told me when we come in again on March 30th, she would show us the two CT scans side by side. 
The mass in Harley's esophagus/stomach area had gone down by 25% and the two small tumors on his lung were almost gone!
I can't even begin to tell you how I feel right now, other than extremely blessed and awed by God's power and the power of prayer.  Had it not been for ALL OF YOU praying so hard for Harley, I don't know if he would have had the same wonderful results.
I'm overwhelmed to say the least.  When Harley was first diagnosed, he was given little chance at all.  In fact one doctor told us to go out and enjoy the "little time he had left" and then accidentally said "about 30 days"!  That was before we were referred to the Palo Alto VA (in California) and before his treatment started.  Another doctor told us we should probably contact Hospice!  And yet a third doctor (I HATED HER THEN AND I HATE HER NOW) told Harley as he lay in the hospital bed getting an IV due to dehydration, that she could put in a feeding tube to help him regain strength, but that Harley would be back in a few months with tubes coming out of every orifice in his body, so maybe he would rather just go home and enjoy what time he had left!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Two of the doctors were from the Sacramento VA - I will NEVER go back to that hospital again!
When Harley was finally referred to the Palo Alto VA, it was like a different world.  The doctors and nurses are so caring, loving and upbeat.  And thus on January 26th, Harley had his first infusion of chemo.
Today is March 13th, not even 2 months since he started chemo.  There is no way that ANYONE can convince me otherwise that this has not been a miracle. 
He still has a long way to go, but the mass in the liver is 50% GONE!   :-)  And the esophagus/stomach mass is 25% GONE!
Harley has been feeling GREAT!  He has had absolutely no side effects from the chemo - none- nada - zilch!  He is eating well, gained a few pounds, doing all kinds of chores around the house again and tomorrow he is going golfing! 
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The chemo infusion that is being used on Harley is Carboplatin.  He has an infusion every three weeks.   He comes home with chemo pills that he takes for 2 weeks - 8 pills a day!  The chemo pills are Xeloda.
Yesterday Harley played 18 holes of golf with no problems of being tired other than the normal tired of playing 18 holes of golf.
I don't know what the future may be, but I do know I am looking at the future now instead of just day by day.
Hugs,
Azzie
Subject: RE: my dad's cat scan results
Date: 03/15/2007

>Did you have a pessimistic outlook at first based on the info on the internet? 

No.  I was perfectly healthy and had no symptoms.  So even when the Dr.'s told me I had Stage IV with mets to the liver in July of '04 and that I could die at any moment and had 18 months to live tops, I did not believe them.  So, I went to Dr.'s who said I would live.  Talk about optimism.  Even the Dr.'s who could keep me alive were surprised by my optimism.   

I know most of my co-workers thought I would never return to work.  So no, I knew I wasn't ready to die, it wasn't my time.  So I found really good Dr.'s, which is what I always knew I would do if I needed hospital care and so far I have no evidence of disease. 

One of my Dr.'s went to Buffalo, she did my colon surgery and was awesome.

http://findadoc.med.buffalo.edu/profile/facultyprofile.asp?h

Let us know how we can help.

 

Subject: RE: my dad's cat scan results
Date: 03/15/2007

Thank you so much for your uplifting story.  I hope that my dad has the results your husband has experienced.  There is a lot of power in prayer for sure!!  We'll keep our fingers crossed.

 

Debby

Subject: RE: my dad's cat scan results
Date: 03/15/2007

Sorry to hear about your dad. I hope the results from the PET scan come back with good news.

My mom went into treatment very upbeat and positive. She does not use the internet, so she doesnt know all the horrible things it has to say about this illness.  She beat breast cancer 8 years ago, so she went into this thinking she can beat it as well.

 Two month ago she was unable to swallow her own saliva- she had a total blockage.  Tonight she had chicken and dumplings for dinner!  She was very weak when treatment started. She did not have energy to do anything at all. She was on a feeding tube for all nutrition and meds.  After two rounds of chemo and 22 rad treatments she is back in the kitchen cooking, taking small trips to the store, etc.  In about a month they'll do another scan and decide what to do next.

 One thing your dad needs to know is that treatments have changed a lot in the last couple years.  A lot of the info on the web is dated. Survival rates are improving.

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