Hallo Debbi,
My name is Iris, I am 61 years old and live in the Netherlands. I'm very sorry to hear about your father's illness. Two weeks ago, my husband was diagnosed with a Klatskin tumor. He is going into surgery within two weeks from now and it is not clear yet whether or not the tumor can be removed completely.
Since I heard this terrible news, I went on line to sites in Europe and USA. This is a horrible cancer. The moment it gets discovered, it has almost allways grown so far, that chances for the future are not good. My husband is a young looking, very sportive guy. Doesnot drink or smook, sports a lot. So you never count on anything like this.
From what I read thusfar, if they cannot remove the complete cancer, the life-prediction is between 2-4 years. On a German site I read the story of a Klatskin-survivor. He underwent surgery in 2002 and his latest mail was from June 2006. To be honest to you, if we could get 4 more years, I consider us very lucky and we are going to enjoy those years.
I hope your father will be so strong as to come to realize that every day from now is worthwhile living and loving. I hope very much that you and the rest of the family can be strong too. I wish you all the best and if you want to keep me informed, I'm very much willing to listen to you.
Iris.