Hello, I am a 53 year old female.:
There is hope for your husband...but it takes time, especially coming back from whole-head radiation (which I also had). Firstly, the Tarceva does cause rashes, very dry skin and some hair loss...but, for me, it wasn't constantly like that. Sometimes I had a rash...which subsuded (a dermatologist can prescribe some topical ointment to help that), sometimes my eyelashes would fall out-just like that, but they grow back in. My skin is very dry every day, that is consistent. The Tarceva's side effects are unpredictable and intermittant...but I have been clean from NSCLC from the neck down since Dec. 2006. Now...the Tarceva does not cross the spinal fluid or brain fluid barrier...so what happened to me is this...when I was diagnosed with NSCLC back in June, 2006 (I thought I was in remission because I was diagnosed with cancer back in 2002 and had most of my left lung removed...not having had chemo or radiation, the cancer came back and metastasized to my trachea, spinal cord, collarbone and brain. I had the tumor removed from my cerebellum and began chemo for the cancer in my body.I was again pronounced to be in remission in Dec 2006 and I began Tarceva at that time, but the cancer spread to my brain.) So, the lung cancer metastasized to my brain and I needed whole head radiation and an ommaya reservoir was inserted into my brain and I received intrathecal chemotherapy for 4 treatments. (The shunt has been removed and it has taken about 3 months for my hair to begin to come in-very thinly though.) But, today I am supposedly cancer free...I get an MRI and PET/CT scans in June and continue with my Tarceva until it doesn't work for me anymore and they put me on something else.
That's just the way it goes...I live my life in 3 to 6 month intervals waiting for the scans to see if the cancer has come back. Now I try to live my life very richly during those months in between the scans...I work, I see my children and grandchildren and I try to exercise.
Hope that helps.
Ricki