I am so glad I found this board you all have such remarkable stories.
we just started our journey on 4/13/07 recieveing results from biopsy taken from lump on lymphnode on neck. Positive for Squamos cell carcinoma...We had CT head and chest same day...Next stop was OR to have Paradoscopy done and try find the primary. Lucky we did it was in right tonsil so they took BOTH out and some other samples. Turns out the Right was primary but it had also spread across top of mouth and into left tonsil. Supoosedly rare. We found out this at our first visit with the Radiation doc. The pain was really bad for him. He could barely take liquids. The were very tentative to this and he went on patches for Fentynol which really allowed him to obtain relief versus the narcotics which every 3 hours they were subsiding.
They are not taking the Tumor on the Lymph node on the right side. They told us with the success with Radiation and CHemo the will radiate and if anything left they will then remove (has anyone had this way) He is also hopefully going to be in the trail with Erbutix new drug. Which means he will get 3 items to get rid of it....6 weeks of radiation 5 day a week - 3 Chemo sessions and 3 ERbutix(if selected for trail. We will have final decision MOnday. We got fitted for the Darf Vader costume today and will pet Scan on Thursday. They are putting a feeding tube in (PEG) because he wil recieve radiation on both sides and will lose swalling capabilities. Has anyone here lost swalling capabiliti???
We are both scared it is Stage 4 - T3, N3...The Ct today should hopefully tell us there are no lymph nodes compromised on rledt side. The PET should confirm it has gone no where else...The original CT head and Chest had no signs in Lungs or Brains....YEAH YEAH YEAH
We both have great sense of humor and hope to keep this. The tonsilectomy pain was terrible. THis for a man who never takes anything...He works construction and literally cut the ends of his thumbs off anf were stitched back and he never took an aspirin. He was overwhelmed by the pain. Our Dr. said that the pain there is as good as he will feel for a while witrh radiation.
ANYONE trying Erbutix? Any other Clinical Trails?
Any advise and thoughts woill be so great. Thank you all for sharing your hope...
Let me tell you we are very lucky that we are going to Moffit in Tampa The are experts and we could not be in better hands.