Hi,
A whipple is a very difficult and long procedure. Your dad is going to have a hard time recovering. I know this sounds hard, but there is no easy way to say this. My mum just had this procedure done last Friday. The first two days after sugery she spent in ICU. She seemed to recover very fast. This isn't usually the case because here doctor told us he had never seen that. Unfortunately the last three days were horrible. She developed fever, started retaining water, she started vomiting from an empty stomach that left her exhausted. This seems to be normal, because her organs need to start functioning again and that is very painful. Yesterday she's had her worst day. But, if the doctor has told us the thruth, as of today she should start improving. I trully hope so. We aren't sure at this stage if they have been able to remove the whole tumor. We need to wait for the lab results. That will probably take another 8 days.
Prepare yourselves to be there for your dad, because he is going to need all the support you can give. It is going to be very emotional and very hard. I wish I could give you more possitive news, but this is what we are going thru right now.
We haven't been told how long the recovery will take, because doctors can't seem to answer this question (or maybe don't want to). We live day by day, but we've never given up hope, because this operation is the only chance your dad and my mum have.
Prepare your dad, tell him what's going to happen or let the doctor explain. Try to ask as many questions as you can. The better you are prepared the easier it will be to cope with this.
Wish you all the best.
Pat