I am so glad I found this site.

I wanted to let all of you here know that I am so glad I found this site.  I wish I had found it months ago.  Like when I was first diagnosed in September 2006 with Pancreatic cancer, stage four, non operative, pallitive mostly.

 The most difficult thing for me is watching my husband of 32 years deal with the situation.  It is so difficult for him to watch me die and sometimes he takes that anger and grief out on me.  Or so it seems.  I understand that he is greiving and I understand that he is watching me die.  I feel so helpless.

 If anyone has any suggestions on how I can help him come to terms with what is happening to me and to us, I would appreciate it.

 Thanks for the good information I've found here so far and thanks for supporting each other.

Sassy

 

On 6/7/2007 Sassygranny wrote:

I wanted to let all of you here know that I am so glad I found this site.  I wish I had found it months ago.  Like when I was first diagnosed in September 2006 with Pancreatic cancer, stage four, non operative, pallitive mostly.

 The most difficult thing for me is watching my husband of 32 years deal with the situation.  It is so difficult for him to watch me die and sometimes he takes that anger and grief out on me.  Or so it seems.  I understand that he is greiving and I understand that he is watching me die.  I feel so helpless.

 If anyone has any suggestions on how I can help him come to terms with what is happening to me and to us, I would appreciate it.

 Thanks for the good information I've found here so far and thanks for supporting each other.

Sassy

 

Hello...Just came from the hospital for my 2nd MRI for a spot in the tail of my pancreas.  I am not told what a spot is?  Tumor,cysts, or cancer???  or nothing?  I just found this site today and I will be praying for you.  The diagnosis is almost a relief and not knowing and being sick is just as bad.  Just trust Our Dear Lord, for your husband,  as you were and always will be his gift.  Your concern and compassion for him at this difficult time leads me to believe that you are at peace within yourself.  His love is the best medicine and treatment for you so just let him know everyday.  May you know that Our Lord is with you always and forever.  ...a