Amy,
Thanks for writing. Info on the internet is WAY out of date. We are in the KCMO area and all treatment was done locally at wonderful facilities.
I guess you've read my last update from earlier this year.
Our theory is Laughter IS the BEST medicine, but thanks to God, stem cell research has made leaps forward in fighting this disease. (Stem cells from umbilicle cords.)
My sis finished her 5th round of chemo in Feb/Mar; had stem cells harvested in Mar with the assistance of a drug in development that helped the 'mobilization' of the stem cells; then she had the 6th round of chemo in the hospital and a further week of what we refer to as 'big guns' chemo that was out-patient; that was the hardest part of this whole year. Care-givers want the patient in the hospital for our security and the patient is actually happier and does better at home, so don't be afraid of this. Getting her to eat and drink was the difficult part. When she was too darn tired to take a bath, we did 'bird baths'. The hardest part only lasted about three days, she gained strength and appetite and we had a routine (and she knew I'd make good on threats of "If you DON'T drink this you'll have to go in for an IV!!!") and understandings were reached.
Huge hint: use straight vinegar in a spray bottle to disinfect everything when you get to this point...cheap and works well on food surfaces (much better than bleachfor food itself) and for any house-hold surfaces. (I still use it in the kitchen at my home.) And if you do use bleach for some disinfecting, a spritz of vinegar will cut that slimey feeling left by bleach. Just don't breathe too much of either one!
One concern was infection of the portacath and star-lines. These had to be removed to heal up the infection and reinserted a few times. She got through it though like a champ. Just a few tears.
After the big guns chemo her own stem cells were put back in during a two day process. There were trips to the Bone Marrow Clinic for red cells and fluids a few times and for fever.
Her system started making its own blood and after a few weeks she was outside walking with a mask on (it was summer) and taking care of herself. Follow-up PET scans and CAT scans have shown she is in total remission. This month will be her 6 month follow-up scan.
She went back to work in September, moved into a different house and has been supervising remodeling projects to get it just the way she wants. An unexpected thing was how the chemo effected her muscle-tone. Walking was good for cardio, but her muscles aren't what she was used to before, and being a hard-headed person, you just can't slow her down. Well, she hurt her back and that caused her left leg and foot to go numb and that caused her to loose her balance at work and fall and break her left arm in three places near the wrist. After a surgery to put in a titanium plate on one bone and pin another one, she also got some cortizone shots in her spine to take care of that problem. She was in a wheelchair with one arm in a sling for 10 days. She went stir crazy!!!
That next week she was driving herself to work (with a rigid splint) and the shots had greatly reduced the problem with her back and leg.
Scans are postponed until the plate and bone fuse well enough to get through the PET magnetic processes.
And for me...I made reservations on a cruise so people can take care of ME and I won't take care of anyone for a whole week. It was supposed to be the end of Sept but hurricane Rita postponed it until January....guess that was so I could work in the broken arm doctor visits, haha. Plan something for YOURSELF...anything! It really helps to have something to look forward to, and I'm not kidding. I have a wonderful hubby and two dogs and three cats, but it is gonna feel really good to get away for a week alone.
If you have ANY questions, please feel free to ask. I kept lots of notes. Sis doesn't even remember some of what went on, so notes are good for a care-giver to keep, but she doesn't ever want to see/read them. She went through enough without having to remember it all.
Well, enough for now, hugs and take care.
Terry