On 7/1/2007
Memah wrote:
On 6/29/2007
Secondopprotunity wrote:
I was 38 years old when I found out I had cancer in my neck. I now am 50 and doing well. I had 5 golf ball size nodes in my neck that wrapped around my carrodid artery.
Are they planning on doing the treatments of chemo and radiation at the same time?
Second Opportunity, your name is perfect. Congrats on doing so well and for so long. You know, most of the people I read about on this message board are younger rather than older. My father is 87, and I wonder how that will affect his response to treatment.
His treatment, by the way, is going to be a combination of five days a week of radiation for seven weeks, and weekly chemo.
Thank you for responding. I really appreciate any information.
Maggie
Maggie
My heart goes out to you and your father. I did 38 radiation treatments. At the same time they put me on chemo 24 hours a day for 5 straight days in the hospital. I would go home for two weeks and during that time I had to come back each day to do the radiation. I did the chemo treatment 3 times. As they told me at the time the cancer may not get me but the treatment will. They were correct. It was hell both mentally and physically.
I wish they had taken out all my teeth. The sores in my mouth were the size of quarters and I know at one time there were at least 15. The pain was incrediable. Back then they did not give you a feeding tube. But i can say over time you were not hungry. I lost alot of weight.
The doctors in Indianapolis told me then that the chemo helped like a magnet for the radiation. It would pull more radiation in to help shrink the tumors.
At that time the doctors said they knew by the way people sad in the chair how well they would do with the war against their cancer. Positive Mental Attitude was required, they believed a PMA was 60-70% of winning the war. After going thru it I believe it is at least 80% of winning. The doctors felt if the patients eye's staired at the floor and did not look up they had given up already and would not make it. On the doctor's staff was a phycologust that we could call. I was a man then that felt proud and did not need help so I did not ask them of help, I wish now that I had.
Your father is in for a hard war. The battles will start out daily, then they will be hourly, then go to min. to min. It is going to take everything he has and more just to get thru the treatment. I can not imagine not having family with him to help in so many ways. If it was not for family I would not be here on earth.
After I did the treatments, I also had surgery to remove what they thought was either scar tissue or cancer. It was scar tissue.
Even today they continue to tell me to enjoy my time, that they can not find the cancer.
Your father needs to Believe he will be ok, and he will be. Needs to keep a Positive Mental Attitude, always upbeat. Neads to keep his Faith, God Loves Us All. Last but not least he must Never, Never, Never Give Up.