Dear Redbear,
Like the other responses, Only You and Your Family can make the ultimate decision. The biggest question should be how early was the cancer detected? I am 58 years old now; my pancreatic cancer was discovered in May of 2003. I had a Whipple Procedure at St Lukes Hospital in Houston, Tx. My surgeon, Gretchen Zimmerman, is a Teaching surgeon there and one of few doctors that perform Whipple. She was marvelous. My surgery was 8.5 hours; and my Recovery, in hospital was 3 weeks. I did develop some nasty infections, and ended up back in the hospital for another 3 weeks, I think these are pretty standard with this type of surgery. So, After the first 2 months, I was sent home for recovery. It was tough; but not unbearable. I started Chemo And Radiation, the Chemo was hard on my body due to its weakened state; and I was hospitalized again for dehydration and Low Red Cell count. I am now chronic anemic; and require B12 injections monthly. However, this is 2007 ! I have had 3 pet scans and numerous MRI, Cat Scans, Blood Chemistry etc; and still "kickin". My treatment left me with some Insulin problems; but I am Not taking injections "yet".. I also have some disgestive issues; but none that are overwhelming. I do take pancreatic enzymes with each meal. Other than all that, I am still Working Full time, I am a software implementation consultant. I travel with my work and personally almost monthly. I am Thankful the God above for the miracle of Life. I have been able to "remarry" a wonderful man (I was widowed when diagnosed) and I enjoy my 2 children and 4 grandchildren.
I Wish you all the Luck and would be happy to speak with you or your caregivers about my recovery.
Granna in Texas