My husband has tonsil cancer. He finished 7 weeks of radation and 3 rounds of chemo 4 weeks ago today, I am looking for someone who has done this, I think we both expected him to feel much better at this point. He has not been able to eat yet. He is still in a lot of pain and is in bed most of the time, I do not know if he is depressed or sick. I hate to push him if he really is sick but I do not want to just let him sit in bed while we live our life without him. We have a seven year old and a four year old, I have to try to keep things as normal as I can for them but it is hard. If anyone has any advise I could use it.