Paula, I can understand why you are feeling confused. I was diagnosed almost 2 yrs. ago, a very grim prognosis. I have been in remission for over 1 year. My treatments of Gemzar and Cisplatin went well. Dr. went full force and saw results after just six months of treatment. THis was much quicker than he expected. He still reminds me that I am very "unusual" compared to others with this type of cancer. He told me that I might not respond to the chemo and also this disease would probably take me, but he did not give a time frame. I take one day at a time. Dr. will run scans etc. in late summer.I have a chest port, that has to be flushed every six weeks.
I would get another opinion on whether or not your Mother should have chemo. I have heard of a few that did not have chemo and are successful.This disease is so rare, that alot of it is trial and error. My cancer center is the fifth largest in the country and my DR. is the director clinical trials. He keeps up with the latest treatments etc.
God Bless and let me know how things are going. Linda