We're in New York City. She's being treated at Memorial Sloan Kettering. I know what you mean. This is a normal part of life, parents don't outlive their children but at 31 years old, I don't think that I should have to deal with this. I'm not ready. I'm in a fog at all times and I don't know if I am over-reacting. My mother was fine when they found the spot on her brain CT scan. She walked with a cane but that was because she had hip replacement. She was just told that she was in remission. Then they found this spot - they called it "Sprinkles". They said that she was extremely lucky and they found it very early, but I dont feel lucky. She was fine two treatments into her radiation. Then she started to have trouble walking - I was told that was the tumor expanding, which is what they do before they die. I was told that this is normal and is what would be expected. Then she started having problems with her short term memory. I was told this is normal and should start to subside 2 - 3 weeks after radiation stopped. I just have to keep telling myself that my mom was OK before she started radiation and this is just the effect of the radiation. She finished with her treatment on Monday the 16th, so its just been a week and a half.
I worry too about what is next, but when we consulted with the radiation oncologist and she said that she wanted to do total brain radiation to make sure that there are no cells hiding out, my sister had asked her if the radiation doesnt kill the cancer, will it help to shrink it? The doctor just replied, "Oh, no - it's going to kill the cancer". I'm trusting this doctor.
Is your mom eating well and drinking alot? Is she on any other treatment? My mother has been very weak lately, and the visiting nurse has told us that she seems to be dehydrated and that she needs to drink more. That the chemo isn't going through her body quickly enough and that could be causing some of her weakness.
Please let me know how she progresses. And your family is in my prayers.
Jennifer