On 7/27/2007 Skippy wrote:
Maggie, Glenn told you pretty much the way it is with a peg tube. It was first a shock to me that I was going to need one. However, seriously it has been a god sin for I wouldn't have lived w/out the tube. I had 39 rad. treatments & two chemo's. I finished my last treatment last June, and will probably get rid of the pet tube next month. I have learned a lot of people get themselves in serious trouble getting rid of the tube to soon so he does need be in any hurry. Once he get use to using the tube it is so bad. By the way I lost 35 lbs. along with my appetite. His energy level will not be very good for think that just goes along with the treatment. You mentioned he is in Arizona, and just wondering if he is getting treatment at Mayo. I had never been under the weather so this was a big shock to me. My disease was bad so with treatment and your father doing what he is suppose to do he should be all right. You might suggest to see him he can purchase a product called Nutren 2.0 for it has 500 calories which is easy to use in the tube. Sounds like he will need approximately 3000 calories daily to keep him on track. If he can't purchase it locally, then it can be ordered thru the internet. I found it to be the best. Tell him if possible try to keep as active as possible, and this will also help keep his mind off of the disease. It will probably get a little rough towards the end of treatment so just keep a positive attitude. I couldn't swallow for three months after treatment, but gradually it is improving. His will all depend on where the disease is localted and how severe. If you can I would like to hear how he is doing later with the treatment. I am in Branson, Mo. but my wife was rasied in Phoenix. To hot for me out there in the summer. Roger
Thank you Roger. His cancer is at the base of the tongue very far down, and is stage IV. The doctor has stated his prognosis as poor. My father is 87 years old. I have been reading around online like crazy of other people's stories and am getting a picture of what is ahead for him. I do not think he is at all aware of how unpleasant this will probably become. He does have a positive attitude, but it may be more a lack of information than anything else. He thinks radiation is going to be "a walk in the park."
He only weighs 141, so if he should happen to lose 35 pounds I think he'll be in trouble. I mean, a 6' tall man weighing 110? And I realize he could lose a lot more. He is not someone who pays much attention to the details of his care, and this really worries me.
No, he is not being treated at Mayo, although I did suggest that to him. His doctors are in Tucson, where he lives, and are associated with the University of Arizona there.
Thank you for writing. I appreciate you for taking the time.
Maggie