I'm so sorry that you have this monster in your life and I wish you strength and courage.
Washington State's facilities are right up there with the best...I'm in Alaska and have had to travel to Seattle for treatment, etc.
Can you obtain details on your Dad's diagnosis? There are 22, 23 or so types on NHL each with their own issues.
I've spent alot of time in the last 6 years in this issue and would be glad to help.