Thank you for replying, it is such a hard time and its great to know that there is support out there. My brother has been on sutent for the last 3 weeks and to be honest up to today he has never been better, he is a different person, he is starting to live again. He had a seizure this evening which brings reality back into the situation. He overdid it today because of how good he has been feeling, but thank God he didn't need to go to hospital and he fought it well (I pray tonight that the phone doesn't ring). So I don't know if it is the sutent or the miralce we have been praying ,but he has a renewed life at the minute which I thank God for. I hope your husband gets to try the sutent and maybe you too will see a change for the better, who knows how long it will last but it gives us all a glimmer of hope. So I pray you will get a glimmer of this hope too.
Take care and God bless to you and your husband.