We are in a similar HPV oropharyngeal cancer setting. Our Rad/Onc told us that HPV is generally associated with nonsomkers and generally more treatable. Is it me or is this HNC thing going wild in middle aged men? Our RadOnc said that testing for HPV was not useful but it might be detected on the biopsy but would not really change the treatment plan. We have been given 2 choices: radiation for 30 tx'x with enhanced 2x's daily radiation for an additional 5-9 treatments or 30 radiations and cisplatin weekly for, I forget how many weeks as we havent talked with the med/onc yet. Regardless of cause,stage, location etc it is my impression that they are going to hit you hard with that radiation and if you don't respond (or still have a mass or swollen nodes) they will then do the surgery to resect out the tissue that didn't respond to the radiationl. Did you think that knowing that your husbands tumor was HPV related was improtant in his treatment plan? We may need to go back to the drawing board.
As far as the feeding tube is concerned, I am thinking that it would be nice to have in case a crisis occurred and then you wouldn't have to scramble around to get it placed. Any opposing opinions on that thinking?
What about you spouses out there? Are you guys able to work? I am presently out of work but desperately need to go back as the credit cards are getting heavy and the bills are stacking up!. I don't feel like I can take on a new job and this big assignment together! Any suggestions?