Rosario,
I can certainly understand your frustration. I'm surprised that they haven't restarted you on chemo. Since you have developed spots on your liver, bones, brain, and skin, the chemo should help to fight the cancer in all of those locations. I know that there is a blood/brain barrier with some chemotherapy drugs, but I'm sure that your medical oncologist will be able to provide you with something that could transfer across the blood/brain barrier. Are you eligible for Herceptin? I've heard that they believe that it crosses the blood/brain barrier.
I was also diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) so I know how frustrating it can be. There is an IBC forum and e-mail list where you can communicate with a lot of other IBC patients and find out how they have dealt with recurrences. Since IBC usually affects the skin originally, it's more likely to recur on the skin than other types of breast cancer, and the surgery line is the most common site for a skin recurrence.
The following website has information about IBC and how to join the forum and e-mail list:
http://www.ibchelp.org/
The following website has encouraging information about long-term survivors of IBC:
http://www.ibchelp.org/ survivors/
I truly admire your perseverance, Rosario. Keep the faith.