I went through this four years ago. The pain associated with the hair loss will lessen and then dissappear. I'm thinking it took about six weeks. I always thought it felt like someone had pulled my hair really hard. I shaved my head when I had lost more hair than I had left. I can't remember if that helped with the pain, but it was easier to look in the mirror. Hopefully, it won't be long before the physiological pain of hair loss goes away. Good luck.