Hi new to this so i hope you can bare with me.
My one and only "kid" was diagnosed with bladder cancer today. Not a very good prognosis...about 90% of his bladder is a tumor.
His name is "Rock" an SPCA dog that I have had for over 12 years now. He is my buddy, friend, companion and child and after reading alot in this forum today you all understand that.
Started to pee all the time with a significant amount of straining. Never went in the house but suddenly couldn't stop. Then the blood in the urine came.
I'm sort of the "tough seeming guy" all my life...(just ask my ex girlfriends) and nothing effects me (please bare with me) but this is breaking my heart. Much more than previous break ups, and even more than some human losses. I don't think most people who know me understand the feeling of this because "it's a dog" comment comes with it. He's not just a dog he's my best friend.
Been going through what a lot of you have seemed to go through. First it was Cushings ...got that under control with the Lysodren (but borderline Adddison's) then the infection possibilities. Went through the antibiotic processes.
Finally the Vet who I like very much said I think an Ultrasound should be done. I think he actually knew all along the possibilities...elevated protein in the urine, straining etc.
Did that today with the obvious bad report.
I guess what I need to ask is that are the treatments for us or for the dog? I don't want to put him through misery for my sake. I want him around forever but is it really fair to him?
Do i get tired of cleaning up his constant peeing...yes. Do i want to keep him around me for as long as possible if he's not suffering...yes. I want him around forever.
Anyway thanks for dealing with my rambling but I don't want to think about him not being around and the people on this forum seem to understand that feeling.
Thank you for this forum-
Rocks Dad