Dear daughter,
I was diagnosed a year later than your mother. My oncologist did not remove my kidney because the cancer had spread to the lung. He offered me lots hope and told me they were making great strides in the treatment of RCC and got me on a drug called Nexavar that was awaiting FDA approval. It has been approved along with sutent 6 months after nexavar, and torisel approx one year later. There are also drugs in phase 2 clinical trials that look promising. They also are trying Avaston which was approved for another type of cancer, but has shown promise with kidney cancer.
I was on nexavar for 18 months, and my cancer did not grow, but the side effects got to me. So, yesterday I started torisel, and so far I haven't had any negative reaction. We will do a scan in a couple of weeks to see how it is working against the cancer. I get an Infusion once a week.
My point is, in Sept of 2003, the doctor had hope to offer your mother. Is he an oncologist? I am not a medical professional, but I would seek a 2nd opinion, from on oncologist who has experience treating people with kidney cancer. I also don't believe in being overly opptomistic, and none of these drugs are a cure, but I would not give up on your mother just yet. Your doctor may be right about your mother's life expectancy and honesty is good. But just as an aside, I was diagnosed with HIV 20 years ago, and the only drug available was AZT. My doctor could have justifiably said get your affairs in order, but he pulled up on his computer a whole list of drugs they were pursuing to fight AIDS. I began AZT therapy. As one drug failed, they came up with a new drug and then another. Today, I take a drug combo or coctail, as they call it, and I'm doing great. Too bad I got kidney cancer, but I'm not giving up yet, and I don't think you or your mother should either.
Richard
On 8/25/2007 runningragged wrote:
My mother was diagnosed sept 11 2003 and had her left kidney removed. Her surgeon told her since it was encapsulated that they got it all and there was nothing to worry about. Well here we are 4 years later and she has had lung tumors removed, 3 brain tumors and now liver and spine. Her oncologist said that the chemo will be done but will not give her a long life expectancy. Is there anyone, please knows of someone on this treatment that is defying the odds?