On 8/28/2007
Priscilla wrote:
Please help! My husband is now down about 45 lbs-cannot eat. He is on a clinical trial.Don eats several bites of oatmeal with half a piece of toast in the morning. Lunch is up to half a bowl of campbells chicken noodle soup,and evening maybe a half sandwich blt. In between dream cycles maybe 7 red seedless grapes. He does take a centrum vitamin.Does anyone have some ideas or recipes on shakes we can make that is full of nutrition? Also, constipation is a horrible expereince,stool softeners,milk of magnesia,metamucil do not work :(Waiting anxiously for a reply,please help. Priscilla wife of don.
My wife, Zee, is surviving the same type late-stage cancer -- now on its second year. She's been on Tarceva and RAD001.
Doctor's advice was for her to eat and drink anything she enjoys (including red meats and organ meats like liver for iron) to build up her strength. I've prepared smoothies for her -- mostly the family of berries,especially blueberries, canteloupe, watermelon, papaya, bananas, apples. I 'magic-bullet' any combination of two in pineapple juice or other tropical juices or soy milk. Avoid sugar and dairy. Zee does not like Ensure or Boost.
Being the primary caregiver is very stressful. Please look after yourself, too, Priscilla. Not only for you but for your patient who would also be concerned about you. You won't be useful to your husband if you don't look after your health. Help from a professional caregiver relieves me from anxiety and practical chores. Since I work 9 to 5, a caregiver comes 8 hours a week to help bathe her, clean up the place, prepare simple meals or just to keep her company. It's expensive unless your insurance provides for this service. We live in Canada so the service is free, covered by universal health insurance.
Just last week we celebrated the results of the C-Scan that showed that
the cancer has been rendered inactive with no traces of nodules
anywhere.
All the best.
Jack K