On 9/6/2007
Elaine Upstage wrote:
Hi there,
My husband is 44 years old and was diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer 11 May 07. It isn't inside any other organs but is a whopper we were told, spreading and attaching itself to the omentum and encapsulating his pancreas and around major blood vessels. He has had ECX at Manchester England which didn't work and is now on irinnotecan and xeloda. Much better quality of life but I am always worried I may be overlooking a better treatment for him. I have been looking on the internet for hours and hours and treatment in USA is sometimes Avastin in conjunction with chemo. Has anyone tried this and to what effect. Avastin in not allowed to be prescribed in England for stomach cancer and I am considering selling everything I own to get this drug for my wonderful husband who just wants to be around to love me and watch his kids grow up. I know that is asking for a major miracle - I would be happy with just a few years - a couple of years - a few more months even - I just don't want him to die now - he doesn't deserve this horrid nightmare that is happening to us. If Avastin is a way forward I will do all I can to get it for him.
Please tell me any information about this drug if you know anything. I am desparate to do something positive I feel so helpless. I haven't been able to find one message which says chemo has shrunk their stomach cancer or held it at bay for any length of time. Please someone - give me some hope!
Elaine
Dear elaineI am so sorry to hear of your husbands diagnosis, unfortunatley i have not heard of that type of chemo as my husband had ec cancer, he had radiation as well as chemo which the radiation is what shrank his tumor, did they mention if this was possible?I am an ex pat from grimsby i now live in dallas and have done for many years, so i know what the nhs is like, i lost my dad to ec cancer 4 yrs ago and radiation was not mentioned, chemo did not work for him as he was too far advanced.With my husband we went to m,d anderson in houston texas, they are one of the biggest and best, you could try contacting them for advice on that type of chemo or what type they would prescribe, we had them prescribe the treatment and had it done here in dallas but always went back to them for check ups.If you tell them of your plight you never know (if you do not ask) sometimes here in the usa people come and if they can't be helped in their country, i'm not saying he can't, they often do it free of charge, if you can't get hold of anyone email me to this message board or i will go back and email you private as they wont post on line our addresses for obvious reasons, i will contact the people that took care of gary and see what if anything they can do.With the nhs now i'm sure you know that you can now go anywhere in the country, have you checked on line for who is the specialist in this area of cancer, like london etc with the nhs you have to push and scream and fight like heck, i know i've been there many times with family ilnesses we have lots of cancer history,unfortunately!!I am so sorry you are going through this we all know on here what it is like, please hang in there and let me know if there is anything i can do to help,please let me know!!!!Love and healing hugsLinda