I just found out last Thursday that my father has uncurable or
terminal cancer too. I am not sure how to feel. I was
the one who took him in the ER on the weekend before and I thought he
had just a stomache ache. It ends ups not to be in his colon but
started outside and spread to his liver, pancreas, lymps and possibly
the stomach. He just had surgery to have a portion of his colon
removed. We are meeting with pathology and the onconologist tomorrow
or Tuesday. I started out hopeful that they would be able to treat it
but once they went in it's a Stage 4 and we are not sure what to do ? I
don't know what to say. I am so sad. He looks so tired and depressed. It was quite a shock. He's healing from the surgery.
We are not sure how long he has had it. Nothing ever showed up on his
test.
I am so scared. My mother is devastated. I have been helping my Mom meet with the surgeons and doctors. I want to be able to stay hopeful but I am not sure what is going to happen.
I am here to get some information and trying to grasp for something.
Any advice would be appreciated.