I was diagnosed in July of '04 with Stage IV colon cancer with mets to the liver on my birthday. The great medical personel in my area said that their was no hope. That I could die at any moment but that I had 18 months tops to live.
I did a lot of research, went to a top cancer hospital, I have had no evidence of disease since September of '04.
I suggest do your research, go to a top cancer hospital, ask a lot of questions.
Good luck.