Hi, I am on my 3 time dealing with this cancer. First time was in 1987, I was 20 years old. I had the left side of my tongue removed, radiation therapy. Second time on my tongue again in 2006, again had partial glossectomy. Third time June, 2007 in my thryroid. This time I had my thyroid removed, trachea resection, three of the rings removed, all my lymph nodes removed, and left vocal cord removed. Afterward I had extensive radiation treatment, for the second time, and chemotherapy. Just finished those treatments two weeks ago.
After the first two times I recovered well, with swallowing and so on. This past time I have really struggled. But I have worked with a swallowing therapist in Augusta, GA at MCG. She is wonderful and we are progressing slowly. Right now I eat through a PEG tube. Which I hate, because I am a mom and still have to cook supper for my family. Talk about a living nightmare. See food, cook food, cannot eat food. But I can take some sips of water by mouth.
Have any of you seen a swallowing therapist? My Surgeon reccomended this and she was absolutely correct. My Surgeon is Christine Gourin, she is awesome, one of the top five in the country. With this type of cancer, don't play. Find an expert, forgive me for being blunt but most doctors don't deal with this type of cancer often enough to really be up to date on the newsest types of treatment. My swallowing therapist is Lori Burkead, again wonderful. We use a treatment called vitastem. It is technique using electric stimulation to the throat area. You use it while you swallow to improve the muscles.
As for your husband, I know how he feels. I can no longer speak, eat or swallow my own spit half the time. I really struggle with the inability to communicate with my young children, 17,11,and 8. Or my husband. They try to understand me and we do okay, but it is so overwhelming. But I am not ready to give them up yet, so I go on. I am fairly young, only 40, so I would like to see them graduate from high school atleast. Please if your husband does not see a swallowing therapist, try that first. I hate surgery and after radiation treatment, skin and tissue does not respond well at all. My neck and tissue is so stiff I have very little mobility and a constant feeling of choking. I also use a type of facial massage daily to encourage the scar tissue to loosen up.
I hope I have helped you in some way. Please let me know if I can give you any information. My doctor is moving to Johns Hopkins in Maryland soon. She is really one of the best and I am sure might be able to give you some advice.
Leann