sorry to hear this about your nephew. stomach cancer is very difficult. most cases aren't caught til late stages. not alot of research going on for this type of cancer.
my father (74yrs old) was just diagnosed in july. has surgery in august. the removed 60% of his stomach. they saw it had spread to the liver and colon and lymph system. the tumor they removed was at the very bottom of the stomach, going into the colon. if it were almost anywhere else, or would have spread to the outside of stomach they wouldn't have been able to remove what they did. his liver has about 10-15 tumors on each of the 2 lobes. they have given him roughly 10 months to live. in 10wks time the cancer on his liver spread "dramatically".
he just started chemo on august 8th. so far he has only been very tired. he has a 2+ hour drip of oxaliplatin every 3rd monday. and on that day he starts taking cispilatin (sp??) pills everyday for 2 weeks. 4 pills in the morning and 4 at nite. then in 2 months they will do another ct to see if any changes. the treatment is agressive. and we hope for the best. the dr's said they can only add months to his prrognosis if chemo goes well.
statistics show that a little over 21,000 ppl will be diagnosed in 2007 w/ stomach cancer. of those a little over 11,000 will die from it the same year. wicked....wicked..wicked..i am sick over this every day. it has gotten better for me. i am the youngest of 6. my folks just moved to WI 3yrs ago to help me & my hubby w/ aour 1 and only child (daughter) as she was diagnosed w/ low functioning auutism. my daughter & my dad have a very special bond. my family is at odds over treatment. my mother is a wreck. i hope for the best.
some good sites to look at other than this one:
cancertutor.com
curetoday.com
chemocare.com
cancer treatment centers of america
best wishes. i will keep you and your family in my prayers. every bit helps! Kris