Dear anxious spouse,
I can speak from experience thus far that your husband is very lucky to have discovered this so early. The prognosis is should be very good. Here is my story:
I am from Long Island NY. Age 53 at diagnosis in March 2007, female non smoker (entire life), non drinker (not since high school) and excellent oral hygiene (gums/teeth cleaned at peridontist every 3 months, sonicare brush at night, floss). One day at the breakfast table, my boyfriend made me laugh and since I have such a big mouth :-) he said "whats that thing in your throat?". I looked in the mirror and there was a growth about the diameter of a quarter sticking out of my right tonsil. No sore throats, no pain at all no swelling of lymphs. Went to my ENT at Sloan Kettering (he has been watching a hurthle cell growth on the right side of my thyroid since 2002) and he did a quick biopsy snip of the growth. He felt it was not cancerous and probably just a papilloma. Pathology report indicated severe dyslplasia and he said the tonsil had to come out , but still felt it was not cancerous. Had right tonsillectomy on 3/21/07 and Dr. still felt confident (told my boyfriend when I was in recovery) that all would be well. The next week at my post op visit, when the Dr. shut the door to his office and I saw the look on his face, I knew it wasnt good. He said I had SCC, stage 2, N0; the biopsy indicated lymphovascular invasion and there was a very small margin on the tonsil, hence, 6 weeks of radiation were indicated. I went to 2 medical oncologists and 3 radiation oncololgists and the conscensus was 3 to 2 in favor of chemo One radiation oncologist felt that the improved prognosis I would get from chemo was not that great to warrant the more severe side effects, especially in light of the fact it was stage 2. I chose this course of action. My last radiation treatment was 6/15 and I started to feel better by the end of JUly. I was able to complete 44 miles of cycling on the hilly roads of Lake Placid NY. The two weeks after radiation were the roughest as I could not sleep at night. Every hour or so, I would wake up with a burning throat and tongue and go into coughing fits which then further aggravated the pain in the throat. I lost about 12 lbs since I had no taste buds and eating tasteless food that hurt my throat made me not want to eat. Scrambled eggs was about the only palatable thing I could tolerate. Chocalate (something I was addicted to) is HORRIBLE! I still mourned the loss of my taste buds as I didnt realize how much I loved eating and how social eating is. I also mourned my saliva glands as the dry mouth is very unpleasnt. None of the things (biotene, salivart , Calphasocol helped the saliva. THe burn on my neck was pretty bad now there is only a little discoloration. My prognosis is good and I will be under a microscope for the next few years (endoscopes, PETS) so I am thankful for that. One thing I have noticed , many of the people are NON smokers and NON drinkers in their 40's/50s. My doctors suspect my cancer is HPV related (the good news is, this has a better prognosis than tonsil cancer related to smoking/drinking). Johns Hopkins has done some interesting studies on this (HPV related tonsil cancer) and published some findings in May of this year that have linked the two. I think we are just seeing the tip of the iceberg with HPV and head and neck cancer. At this point , I still do not have full saliva (eating bagels requires lots of liquids to get them down) and my taste buds are not as strong as the used to be, but I can still enjoy food. Interesting thing, I used to love Nutella, but it does nothing for me anymore. Go figure.
I wish you and your husband the best. The journey will get rough at some times, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.