Hi Gayle,
Thank you for responding! His tumor was in the parotid (salivary) gland--on the side of his face. They took as much of it as they could, during the surgery, without destroying the facial nerves. As far as we know, the cancer had not spread, though they did find one positive lymph node(that was removed) with "positive margins" in the gland. That scares me! All the lymph nodes they took from his neck were negative. This type of cancer, we were told, does not respond to chemo. It has to be wiped out with the radiation. My brother-in-law is a cancer surgeon in Missiouri and he encouraged us to go to Dana Farber for a 2nd opinion. They are the experts for this very rare cancer. Their suggestion was to do the chemo treatments, along with the radiation, as it is a very aggressive cancer (squamous cell in the salivary gland))and if it spread, the chemo would, hopefully, take care of it. So, we followed their direction.
Yes, his mouth is somewhat dry. Our dentist gave him some mouthwash, called Oasis, for dry mouth. He's also been using special toothpaste($15/tube!)to protect his teeth.
We expect the after effects for the next 3 weeks or so and then hope to notice some recovery things. He's lost about 20 pounds and wasn't very much overweight when he started.
Thanks for your input.
Jean