Myelo is an awful disease that causes not only spleen enlargement but robs the body of all red blood cells, to the point that it affects all the body organs to somehow make blood, even if it is not a blood product. It causes demise of the liver, kidneys and all other vital organs, and the interior of all the organs to become a ball of sludge that the body tries to pass thru as blood. As the organs deteriorate, the sludge is passed thru the system.
We went thru many blood transfusions, and celcebrated the good counts. Every little thing is hopeful.
My mother is a genius at massage and this seemed to help alot. I made a foam bed, made to order, onto how he slept at night.
Unfortunately, eventually, we had to go to pain management. On the clock every 4 hours, keeping up with the pain meds BEFORE the pain got unmanagable.
Meals should be loose, soups, juices.. I recommend apple and carrot naturallly.
He could also spend time in a recliner, to help the pressure on his stomach.
I know this is a very difficult time for yourself and your family. Try to take some time for yourself, even if it's 5 minutes. And take advantage of the time you have. Anytime you want to vent. Don't hesitate to contact me.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.