dear libby it has been 4 months now since my husband, jim, went to be with the Lord. after 27 years of marriage, it was hard to let him go. in fact, i am still in the process of letting go...sometimes with breakneck speed as though i could bypass the grief and pain. and other times, i dig in my heels and refuse to let go. then the Lord comes at just the right moment and gently pries me away from all that i have known and leads me on into the uncertain future. of one thing i am certain, though. jim became a believer during his illness and he thanked God every day for the cancer, in spite of the pain and the fear and the sadness of leaving. how can i do less? i am sorry larry is gone. know that many are praying for you to get through this. sincerely jimandkathy