I'm glad you are not giving up hope. The statistics are bad, but SOME people do live. It sounds like you've decided which camp you want to be in.
My husband has bile duct cancer. He is doing pretty well. His cancer was inoperable until he went on a regimin of Gemzar and Erbitux. Erbitux is a new colon cancer drug. After eight treatments, his tumor had "shrunk dramatically". It did not do a whole lot more the next few months, but it was enough that they were able to resection his liver. He still has the cancer on the remaining side of his liver, but there is a new proceedure that he did about a month ago where they place tiny, radioactive beads into the liver through the femor artery. This was done by Dr. Charles Nutting--in Denver at Porter Adventist Hospital. They have had good results with this. My husband has not had a follow up PET scan, but we are hopeful. The Erbitux has seemed to have run its course, so now he is on another new colon cancer drug, Avastin.