I've had RCC Stg 3B since Nov. 2005. When I was initially diagnosed, I was told I had 8-10 months to live. I had sugery immediately to remove a large tumor and my right kidney. The tumor had extended into the Vena Cava. The surgery was complicated and lengthy (5 hours), but I recovered quickly. (I had great surgeons in St. Louis). I returned to work including frequent travel, within 6 weeks of the surgery. After the surgery, I had no tumors in any vital organs, just on my adrenal glands and in several lymph nodes. In March 2006 I started on Sutent after trying Nexavar to no avail. Sutent held the cancer in check for 15 months. In June 2007 I developed "Pleural Effusions" (fluid buildup in lining of my left lung). Labs indicated there was no cancer in the lining or the fluid, luckily. My oncologist is certain it is an indication of RCC progression, so we have stopped the sutent. We started a Chemo protocol of Gemzar, Xeloda, and Avastin, which is similar to a clinical trial in place at the Univ. of Chicago.
So far this has effectively stopped the progression, and I am still hoping for positive results.
I personally would go forward with the surgery and maintain the expectation for long term survival.
Hang in there !
D. J.