Reading all these posts has made me very, very fearful. Do you all feel that the ROs were at fault? I heard the Radiology part is extremely complicated and should be done by someone very experienced in HN cancers. How can you know?
My heart goes out to all of you who have suffered so.
My husband is starting Chemoradiation THerapy right after Christmas. He is feeling wonderful, eating more and various foods every day ~ but he still has a least one enlarged cancerous node in his neck, even after "successful surgery." So I don't see that we have a choice. Just as you didn't, except in retrospect.
I'll be praying for all of you, both caregivers and patients. Being a caregiver myself, I'm intimately aware of the pain in watching a loved one suffer. the "what ifs". second guessing everything we do (or fail to do.)
May God bless you with his peace, the peace He gives in the middle of trials. Ask Him for it, He will in no way turn you away!
Diane