katrina, i am so very sorry. the speading to the liver is very common. the liver is the filter and everything goes through it, so it is very easy for cancer to travel to.
if there is 1 large mass or others that are in the same area, the liver would be good to do surgery on. they can take part of the liver. it is much bigger than we think and 1 surgeon we saw said that in reality the dr's could take about 70% and the pt would still have a functioning liver. there is also something that we've heard of and that is where they inject "seeds" into the liver directly and that acts like a chemo and helps to rid the tumor.
the dr's may also opt to do radiation and shrink the heck out of it and then go from there. but try to get as much info as you can about different procedures and bring them up at your appt. you may also want to get a 2nd opinion. in new york @ sloan, they do alot of liver cancer stuff. so if you might be anywhere near there, that could be an option. also cancer treatment centers of america have some great equiptment & procedures that many other places still don't.
keep the faith! stay strong! never give up! keep us updated. my thoughts will be with you. take care, kri