Dad Is Sick Please Help

dad has bone cancer just diagnosed the cancer is supposedly in his liver and in the past 2 monthes he has lost 35 pounds the say he has diabetes all of the sudden his eyes are yellowish orange and the docttor said he is too far gone for treatment I am devastated and dont know what to do or what to expect 3 months ago he seemed healthy and hurt his foot and its been awful eversince he is only 56 please help me with any info please

my father i55 he was healthy active and worked all hislife we lost our mom last year she was 52 it was only last october thing just started to get better thought they where not the same without hea few months ago my father steped on a rock anhurt it so took time off work because he coulnd walk without limping awter weeks the pain got worse he saw his dr the sent him for xrays and his shouler that 3 years back he had a rotator cuff sergery onstarted to boter him and he started becoming sore in his nees feet ect and when he coulnt bear it the sent him to hopital to aawait test reults an after abut a week of wating my sister an i wwere tod it was bon cancer with that has spread to all the joints and even to his liver i just seen him yes teday because he are sendin him hom wih von and want hospice for our familyand his eyes are yellowish orange and he lost more weight they also say he need insulin  imes a day and his liver is vin off 14xtmore alpa-fetprotien than it should be doctors confuse me and wont be real i dont no what im goin to deal wit and i need to be strong I an hi primar cargiver and what i dont noscares me can someone tell me what i

might have to see how close is he to dyin apprx 

heartbroken scared about to loose the second and last hero and insperation PLEASE HELP

This is a tough one.  Liver involvement of this stage is almost impossible to come back from.  I actually admire the doctor for not pushing treatment on your very ill Dad.  YOu can only support him and make him comfortable with pain meds and nutrious food. YOu can google the cancer but I am presuming it is secondary and I would suspect it was originally in liver or somewhere else. Here is a link that explains the difference.  My prayer is for you and your dad to not suffer and find a way to help.

http://www.cancercompass.com/bone-cancer-information.htm

On 1/10/2008 bonecancspread2liver wrote:

dad has bone cancer just diagnosed the cancer is supposedly in his liver and in the past 2 monthes he has lost 35 pounds the say he has diabetes all of the sudden his eyes are yellowish orange and the docttor said he is too far gone for treatment I am devastated and dont know what to do or what to expect 3 months ago he seemed healthy and hurt his foot and its been awful eversince he is only 56 please help me with any info please