Not being silly, get rid of your assets, be poor on paper, apply for medicaid or whatever your state combines for federal medical help, ...hopefully, your husband has not passed a point of being able to be helped....that is a decision your caregivers may have made in their charts but not shared fully with you..may go something like this, ...if max. treatment cant "buy" 9-15 yrs, then the max. potential treatment may be off the radar, sort of remedial stuff may be offered or proposed....best wishes