Hi jglan~~ Getting pain under control is one of the first steps once diagnosis has been established. I initially had a couple of radiation zaps to my spine which immediately reduced the back pain. Then they started me on codine/ordine/etc. tablets, none of which really worked but they did give me constipation. Then I was put on the durogesic patches and these have been my saviour. It was started at 25mg every 72 hours - the patch was changed every three days. That was not enough, so after a few days I was put on 50mg, then it was upped to 100mgs. Now after 4 years of gradual incriments, I'm on 300mg every 48 hours and this works. It enables me to live a fairly normal lifestyle with occasional top ups of Ordine 10 when I have to make a long journey by car. Many people shy away from pain medication, and feel that they will be classed as addicts, but when you are taking this stuff for cancer pain there are no 'high's' and it really does work to control only the pain. Listen to what the pallative care doctors and nurses advise and you will find that they truly support people taking regular pain meds so that they never get into extremely painful situations. They advise that it is easier to control the pain continuously rather than trying to bring an horrendous pain situation under control! I certainly agree. I have five crush fractures in my spine and leisons on all my bones, including my skull, but I can sleep at night and rarely wake in pain. Discuss this with your medical people and I'm sure that they will agree. Good luck to you all, Cath