My radiologist started me on a 25mcg/hr patch. When that wasn't enough he referred to a Pain Management Doctor. And I'm not talking about a strip mall methadone clinic. He was a God send. He kept upping my dose till it became effective.
Along with the patch I had Oxycodone. The combination of the two worked well. While I wasn't able to eat, I managed to swallow a little bit of water every day. It's VERY important to do that. I've retained 100% of my ability to swallow. 16 months post treatment and I can eat anything I want.
Back to the point. The use of the Duragesic Patch is very common with cancer patients. I'd do it again in a heart beat. I read stories about how much people suffer and I don't get it. There's no reason for it. A good pain management doctor can control most of the pain that comes from radiation of the neck. The key is to find a good doc that will up the dose until you get to a level that works for you. At one point I was on 100mch/hr patch and 25mg/5 times a day of Oxycodone. Yes, that's a lot, but again, not uncommon. Check out the Oral Cancer Foundation's Web site at http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org You'll find lots of info and stories of people on more drugs than me :)
As hard as it is to believe, I never really felt like I was on drugs. Your body has a way of dealing with things.
There is a down side, but I think it's worth it. Withdrawal. It can be ugly. You WILL become dependent on it, no way around it. One of the reasons I was on so much Oxy was that I built up a tolerance to the Fentanyl.
When it was time to get off the pain drugs, I was weaned slowly. It took about two months and was relatively painless. There were times I did suffer the classic heroin type withdraw symptoms. You learn not to be afraid of them and deal with it. A little Xanax helps :)
Another side effect is BAD constipation. I don't mean take a pill every now and then type constipation. I mean do everything you can and still struggle to go 3 times a week. It's one of the most talked about topics on pain boards.
All that being said, if I have to go through this again, I'd try to use a little less, but my pain doc would be one of the first people I'd call.
Hope this helps,
Tom