Snucs

Hi to all my snuc friends, thats who I consider you all to be, even though I have no reason to keep in touch since my husband passed away August 2006 you all became very special to me over the two yrs. I watch this message board from time to time but notice there hasn't been an update from anyone for awhile, just wondering how everyone is. It's a long hard journey but you just have to hang in. I just wish you all many blessings in this new year. Lilypilly [Australia]  

Hi SNUC'S, I am new online but seen your message on the board related to the passing of your spouse. I am sorry he lost his battle. I too face losing my spouse who was just diagnosed iwht small cell lung CA last month. Our battle has just begun. He has had 1 round of chemo so far. I just wonder how you were able to find the strength to get trhough all of it. I fing myself crying out of the blue day and night thinking about loosing him. Any advice would be helpful. MAY GOD BLESS US ALL. PWhitt

 

On 1/30/2008 PWhitt wrote:

Hi SNUC'S, I am new online but seen your message on the board related to the passing of your spouse. I am sorry he lost his battle. I too face losing my spouse who was just diagnosed iwht small cell lung CA last month. Our battle has just begun. He has had 1 round of chemo so far. I just wonder how you were able to find the strength to get trhough all of it. I fing myself crying out of the blue day and night thinking about loosing him. Any advice would be helpful. MAY GOD BLESS US ALL. PWhitt

 

Hi PWhitt,  I really haven't got a easy answer of how to deal with the death of a partner, it has been a very hard road as my husband was sick for two years with what is called sinonasal undifferentiated carcenoma [snucs] but we both had a very strong christian faith and lots of supportive family and friends but you really walk this on your own. I hope that maybe the outcome for your partner will be positive. I started writing to this website in 2004 and you can read heaps of letters which I found helpful and the support. Keep strong and don't feel bad about a good cry I still do.  Lilypilly [Australia]