Personally, I try to stick to facts instead of reading interesting sites trying to put things out of perspective.
And personally, I believe one should always do a systematic review of the literature before drawing conclusions, instead of searching for studies which might fit your point in a discussion.
From that perspective, these are systematic reviews of prospective studies relating milk to cardiovascular disease and cancer:
1) A systematic review of milk in relation to cardiovascular disease:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15116074?ordinalpos=5&
2) A systematic review of milk in relation to prostate cancer:
http://canceranddiet.nl/prostate_cancer/prospective_dairy_eg
3) A systematic review of milk in relation to breast cancer:
http://canceranddiet.nl/breast_cancer/prospective_dairy_eggs
4) A systematic review of milk in relation to colorectal cancer:
http://canceranddiet.nl/colorectal_cancer/prospective_dairy_
5) A systematic review of milk in relation to ovarian cancer:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16492930?ordinalpos=1&
6) A systematic review of milk in relation to esophageal cancer:
http://canceranddiet.nl/esophageal_cancer/prospective_and_ca