Hi,
I’m 44, father of one (with another on the way) and was
diagnosed last September with MM borderline Mgus
(found completely by chance, thankfully, when I had a
full physical with blood tests). My levels have
remained stable over the past nine months and I’m
fortunate to have one of the world's leading specialists
at St. Vincent’s Cancer Center here in NYC as my
doctor. I also participate in a research program at
another hospital/university, also in New York. As far as
bad situations go, mine could be a lot worse. But, with
no real cure in sight, I do worry a great deal about the
future. I have experienced a weird phenomena - I’ve
had close friends, and members of my own family as
well, shut down with knowing about my cancer. I
understand it's a lot to consume. In fact, I think in some
ways it's harder on those around us than it is us
ourselves - and I’ve since stopped telling anyone
about my disease. Nonetheless, the feeling of isolation
can be intense. There is only so much a spouse can
say or offer, I understand. This is why I’m writing here. If
anyone else has had an experience similar to mine,
please feel free to write.
Best,
md