Hi
You and I are on very siimiliar courses. I was diagnosed July 07 with stage 2 rectal cancer very low in my rectum. Doc said I was a 1/2 inch away from a permenant colostomy. I did 6 weeks of Chemo (5 FU) and radiation. 4 weeks later I had my first surgery to remove the tumor.. they found cancer in 6 out of 18 lymph nodes... so it turns out I was stage 3.
Two weeks after surgery I had horrific pain and ended up in the emergency room with a blockage. The doc did not want to operate because he felt my life would be at risk so soon after the first surgery. So he hospitilized me fed me through TPN and waited... he wanted to wait at least 6 weeks to do the surgery. He believed I would be healed up enough and he could go ahead and reverse the iliostomy at that time. I went 4 weeks without a bite of food only TPN which I was able to come home with after 2 weeks in the hospital. Finally at the 6 week post op mark we set up surgery. He found 3 blockages.. mostly adhesions and reversed the ostomy. That was back in November. I am now 4 rounds into my 12 rounds of chemo.
As to how I did after the second surgery.. it wasn't too bad actually.. I expected it to be worse. I would have normal bowel movements but more frequent and sometimes I would skip a day or two.. but it really wasn't too bad. Now after starting chemo it has gotten bad.. diarrhea, constipation and going10 plus tiimes a day, then skipping a day... when I have diarrhea I end up taking imodium which will then shut everything down for days.. I sometimes have to take miralax to get going again.
As to you having the reversal.. my doc originally told me they would do surgery AFTER the 6 mths of chemo. His reason was to allow things to heal better. He said chemo slows the healing process and he would not do it while I was on chemo. If I were you I would wait if possible. As to a test on my sphincter muscles.. I didn't have that.. But the doc did do an exam and said he felt like my "new" rectum was responding well.
I hope this helps.. if u have any other questions please feel free to ask. How are you doing with chemo? I am having a really tough time. I have almost no energy and feel sick most days. I am doing Folfox every other week for three days. Are u on the same chemo?
Good luck to you... this is very hard I know.. by the way I was 42 when diagnosed.
Anita