Hi,
I too have been diagnosed with met RCC Stage IV. I first learned I had it in 1997. Had my kidney removed. In June 2005, I learned that it was back and now in both lungs, Stage IV, dr. gave me 6 months. It is now 2-1/2 years later and believe that only God can tag me. I am 49 years old, married, and have a 16 year old son. I live each day as though I do not have cancer, I simply put it out of my mind, and only remind myself when I have to go for treatment. I've been through IL2, Nexavar, Sutent, Avastin along with Nexavar, and now on Torisel. All meds have worked for me with the exception of IL2. I've bounced from meds to meds because of the side effects. Torisel has very little side effects and I can live a normal life and the medicine is working. Having a good outlook, God in your life, and plenty of support, will help him get through this. I did and I will! Good luck and God bless you and your family.