My daughter & I just came back from a hospice memorial service. My husband died in Dec. from Pancreatic Cancer. He was only 52. We were all encouraged to stand up and talk about our loved one. The first person who got up particularly moved us. My daughter & I got up & spoke to her after the service. Her husband was the same age as mine, same horrible cancer, & she lives in the same town. We took each others e-mails & phone #'s and planned to get together. I wanted to help her, but I bet she ends up helping me also. We just have to remember that there are others out there in the same boat with us, and we can help each other.
Bonni