On 2/29/2008
Peggy62 wrote:
Hi,
I have a 33 year old son who was diagonsed 3 years ago with oligoastrocytoma Gr 2--3 years ago.
Following surgery and radiation he is finally feeling well again and returned to work last week.We are both very happy about that.
I am already lost 2 children. I had my first born die in a seizure at age 21.
He was born witn a birth defect( spina bifida and hydrocephalus), my second chil died shortly after with the same defect and now my third born has brain cancer.
I know the progonsis, but would like any informationyou can give me on time lines of changing from Grade 2 to Grade 3. I am trying to stay one step ahead of David in knowing what the future will bring, so that I can have my emotions in control and better able to help him.
Anybody that can help me, I would appreciate it.
David is now living on his own about 30 miles from me, but we are indaily contact.
Before the surgery, he was having seizures on a daily basis and his personality had changed so drastically that I could barely talk to him.He was very critical of everyone and everything.Presently, I am enjoying having my easy-going son back and wonder how long it will last.
Thank you for reading this.
I am a 31 year-old woman, diagnosed with a grade 3 oligoastrocytoma two and a half years ago, one month before my wedding was to take place. I had surgery and then 7 weeks of radiation, and then we had the wedding and honeymoon. When we returned from the honeymoon, I started my 12 months of Temodar (chemo). I returned to work 2 months after my surgery, while getting radiaiton every morning. I am doing very well, and my husband and I are still considering starting a family.
Your son is very lucky that his was a grade 2, as everything I've learned means that his is unlikely to recur for many years. My doctors are optimistic (or at least have me being optimistic) that mine won't come back for many years, as well, though the mecial books and Internet websites make it sound as though mine (as a grade 3) should have already recurred.
I recently met another woman now in her late thirties, diagnosed 10 years ago with a grade 2, a month after her wedding (as opposed to my diagnosis a month before the wedding), and they now have three children and she is feeling great.
Having to get an MRI every few months of course keeps this from ever leaving one's mind, but we have to do our best to go on with life as normally as possible. I certainly still have my bad, pessimistic, tear-filled days, afraid the tumor will soon come back, but my husband and my parents have taught me a lot about enjoying every day, going on with normal life, and realizing that any one of us could suddenly be hit by a bus, so there's no way to know how much time any of us have left.
I hope your son continues to do well, living life as a regular, plain old, normal 33 year-old! I will say a prayer for David and for you, that you both have many, many more happy years to enjoy.
All the best,
Kristen