Hi Chole,
Sorry for the delay, but when I finished my note to Lori, my internet came down - I meant to reply to you both last night.
Anyway, YES I am on Xeloda now, and happy to share anything I can that would help. I'm 57yrs old so the age difference no doubt applies, but it seems Xeloda is a relatively mild (er) form of chemo. I started with 4 500mg pills two times a day (8 total) back in March. The big side affect for me is the diarrhea. I am susceptible to it anyway, so it's been pretty yucky for me. I've been on a two weeks on, one week off regimen and by the second week could tell I was getting fatigued - hard to do much without having to rest - even climbing stairs or grocery shopping or what-not. That would lighten a lot during the week "off" and then start all over again.
The big side-effect the clinic worries about is "hand-foot syndrome" and that's where your hands or feet get swollen and itchy, and sometimes so sore you can't walk on your feet or use your hands. I was lucky and did not get this, although last month I got real itchy and my skin peeled a little on my hands. The itch comes and goes and is pretty mild, just annoying.
After so many months of Xeloda, the last few have been more uncomfortable - my digestive system is protesting with gas, diarrhea, bloating, some pain in my right side, etc. Still nothing terribly awful, but not fun. And the fatigue lasts longer and doesn't really go away. We've cut my dosage to 3 pills 2x/day and for the session I just started yesterday, I'm only going to take it for 5 days, with 2 days off in between. Since last week I've sort of felt mild stomach upset most of the time and either don't feel like eating or am starving - nothing in between! Clearly my stomach is protesting so much Xeloda!
The plan for me is to stop taking it in November, and just go month to month doing nothing until/unless some symptoms appear and I will have CT scans every 3 months. PET scans don't show anything for me - my tumors don't "light up" so they can't tell what's happening with that procedure. Scary for me as it limits how they'd find anything new.
My cancer was found accidentally and shows multiple tumors in my liver, but no place else *yea! They don't know where it came from, but it's definitely metasticised from somewhere else. The have hardly grown in over a year now but have not shrunk a bit in all this time either - and i was on the regular chemo's for quite a few series. Carboplatin, Taxol, Gemcitibine, etc. I survived those well too, as far as side effects, so, please note that I seem to be pretty strong in that way, and that may not be the case with your mom. I HOPE SO! I know I'm really lucky as this was supposed to kill me in less than a year, so, I'm doing GREAT in comparison!
I hope this helps you in some way. Please feel free to ask me anything, I believe that knowing what's going on is the best medicine.
Hugs to you and your family,
Patti