Hi Anna! I've had MM for 5 years. I had a bad backache and had been going to an osteopath who said that it wasn't getting better with his treatment and recommended that I have further xrays. My GP then started scheduling the grueling set of tests for MM, though none of us realised what he was heading towards. I had a full skeletal survey, nucelar xrays (which are not really necessary for MM), bone density xrays, full blood tests, paraprotein tests, 24 hour urinalysis, and finally the bone marrow biopsy. After all of this, my GP diagnosed his first case of MM and we've both been on a huge learning curve ever since!! He is a lovely guy, and as I left his office after he first told me, I remember him saying "I"m sure that you will know more about Myeloma by the time I see you in two weeks than I know"! He was right because I went on a huge information search, but the best thing I ever found was this site -- it has been GREAT for information and friendships!! My MM is all over my body, but primarily in my bones. I have leisions everywhere from all my bones to my skull. The pain is pretty intense, but we seem to have it under control with fentenal patches and some break through medication. I was told I had 2-3 years from diagnosis, but here I am in my 5th year so we're not doing too badly. With all the new discoveries in medications I've had everything except a transplant because of my age (62) and the fact that I've had really bad side effects from all the drugs with the exception of Revlimid! I've now been on Rev for almost 20 months and I pray that it continues to work for ever as its been the best one for me since diagnosis!! My paraprotein reached 90 at its highest but has been 8 for about 15 months!! What could be better? (Paraprotein is the Australian way of saying M-Spike and the measuring is different. A normal person has NO paraprotein, and 100 is not the 'top', the number just keeps getting higher and higher - my doctor has seen very sick people at 30 and me - still fighting at 90, so go figure!)
I'm very positive, I keep myself very active with running a local cancer support group and taking part in U3A - the University of the Third Age - where older retired people go to learn all sorts of things without having to take exams or write essays!! I enjoy all family things, playing with my children and grandchildren as well as growing closer and closer to my wonderful husband, who is also my carer! There is not point in being negative about MM - its not going to help anything or anyone, and by keeping it at bay hopefully I'll have a lot more time. I do hope that your dad's nosebleeds have subsided and that the doctors have been able to stablise his blood work so that he doesn't have any more. This is a strange and individual disease, with few people having the same problems -- most of us are very unique!! Thats one of the reasons that it is so hard to treat because there is no 'one cure for everyone'!! Everything has to be tried until you find the one that works the best for you, whether thats chemo, radiotherapy, oral chemo, transplant, etc. Usually at least one thing works, and life is always worth living!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad. He is blessed to have you advocating for him and assisting him along the MM journey. Your support will make a huge difference for him and for those around him who are all working to find what will be the best for him. Knowing that he has you will keep them on their toes in helping him -- its just human nature, but thank goodness he has you!! Do take good care and keep on keeping on -- life is certainly worth it!! Best wishes to you both, Cath