Hi Bear's Mom,
I am sorry to hear of your predicament. I know this will be a very stressful time for you. I'm not sure that you asked for any advice, but I just want to remind you that come what may, Bear will never know that she is sick. So as sad as you may be, do not waste any of the precious time you have with her on being sad. Enjoy every minute you can with her. My Annie was diagnosed over three years ago and her only treatment has been Piroxicam. She turns 13 next month and is still doing okay. She has her good days and bad days, but she has been happy all this time. My only regret is the many many days I cried and worried when I should have been taking advantage of the time I had to spend with her. I've learned my lesson and am grateful for every second we can spend together!
Good luck to you and Bear; we will definitely remember you in our prayers tonight.
marty