My Father`S Fight Is Over

I wanted to thank everyone on this website for helping me go through this.  My father finally lost his battle on March 26.  He was in a lot of pain all the way to the end. it was very difficult to watch him go through that.  But now he has no more pain and it feels good to know that.

I found a Canadian Team doing research for Pancreatic Cancer specifically. I will post their information soon on this website.

 Slinky

Slinky, I am so sorry for your great loss.  Although it may sound trite, rest assured that his pain is over and you will see him again.  I lost my wonderful husband to stomach cancer on February 22, 2008.  He had stage IV and fought for three years to survive.  He had no pain til the end but was unable to eat for a long time and we watched his steady decline.  You are in my thoughts.

Diane

On 3/28/2008 Slinky wrote:

I wanted to thank everyone on this website for helping me go through this.  My father finally lost his battle on March 26.  He was in a lot of pain all the way to the end. it was very difficult to watch him go through that.  But now he has no more pain and it feels good to know that.

I found a Canadian Team doing research for Pancreatic Cancer specifically. I will post their information soon on this website.

 Slinky

Slinky,

Our prayers go out to you. I lost my father in 94 when his prostate cancer came back in the bone and then the liver. It is so hard to see them is the incredible pain cancer usually brings.

 We brought him from Wyoming to live with us here in TX when he got so sick and was able to get to know him  again , he survived 6 more months.

Being fairly new to this message board I don't know if you were the primary care giver . In our situation with my dad being at our home with hospice coming once a week someone had to be at home with him 24/7. When we didn't have that responsibility anymore it was a weird thing and I went into depression for a few months. You need to watch for symptoms and don't be afraid or embarrased to get help,medically and spiritually if you need.

Again, our prayers are with you.

Jan

Slinky,

I was so sorry to read about your Dad.  I lost my husband to this "monster"  in December.  When you are up to it, let us know how you are doing-please stay in touch with us.

Bonni

Slinky,

My heart goes out to you.  It's been almost three months since losing Dad and it still hurts.  But like you, I choose to believe that he is in a much safer, happier place.

Gerri 

On 3/28/2008 Slinky wrote:

I wanted to thank everyone on this website for helping me go through this.  My father finally lost his battle on March 26.  He was in a lot of pain all the way to the end. it was very difficult to watch him go through that.  But now he has no more pain and it feels good to know that.

I found a Canadian Team doing research for Pancreatic Cancer specifically. I will post their information soon on this website.

 Slinky

I so feel your pain, my father passed March 27th and was 57.  Maybe they are together somewhere.  My prayers are with you.

Lauren

Slinky,

  It's been a while since i've been on this site, but once I read your message i had to reply.  I lost my dad on June 1st, 2007, even those it's getting close to a year the pain hasn't gone away.  I just live each and evey day to the fullest as I know that it what he wants.  I'm not going to say that I know what you are going through as every father-daughter relationship is different, but just remember to continue to make him proud as he will be with you in everything you do and everywhere you go.  Take care and be strong. 

 Cori