Hi There!
I myself have had two laser surgeries for VIN and will probably need a third one in the next couple of months. My oncologist told me from the beginning that I would probably need more than one surgery to clear it. My first surgery was June of last year and at that time they also did an excision. The area that was lasered was VIN 3 and the excision was VIN 1. When I went back in October I was at VIN 2 in the same area I had lasering done and now we are just waiting to see what things are looking like when I go back in May for my follow up.
If they are stitching you, you should expect 4 - 8 weeks to heal and the lasering usually heals in about a week depending on how quickly your body heals itself. The one thing I have been told by many doctors is that even though you look healed from the lasering, it takes 3 to 4 months for that tissue to completely heal. The lasering is not that bad. I was actually awake during my second laser surgery and was out of the office five minutes later.
The best thing you can do is to take as many sits baths as you can. It helps the healing process and also helps to keep the area clean and cuts down the chance of infection. It is very important to take those baths. Just make sure to keep as dry as possible down there. I have a high tolerance for pain so for me the pain was not too bad but I did have alot of relief from the pain while I was sitting in a luke warm bath.
This is just my experience. I hope this helps. :) If you would like to talk you can send a private message and I will be more than happy to help you through this. This board was a life saver for me when I was first diagnosed last year. :)
I wish you the best and please feel free to contact me if you need to talk.
Chris